5 - Steps To Take To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

Have you recently broken up with your girlfriend, but you still love her and want her back? Are you winging it with no plan or idea of how to get your ex girlfriend back? Unfortunately, just trying "things" may end up in disaster and drive her farther away. You must develop a plan that works if you are to succeed in getting her back. Break ups happen and sometimes cannot be helped, but it does not have to be forever. Here are five proven steps to take if you really want your ex girlfriend back.

5 - Playing extremely hard to get will not get her interested in you again, but you do need to slow down communications with her. Let her know that you are there for her if she needs you and how to get in touch with you. Just maintain a casual connection but keep some distance.

4 - E-mailing sporadically is okay, but do not over do it. If your e-mails are not special and are infrequent, then she will not answer or pay attention to them. Send an occasional e-mail to her to ask "How are you doing?" or "Hey what is up, is there anything new?" just to keep in touch and to keep a connection. This will let her know that you do care about her and you are still around. Sending her constant love poems, pleading or begging e-mails will not get her attention in a positive way.

3 - Do not be flamboyant around other women. She will not like it, and it may make her think that you do not really want her back. A little jealousy may up your chances of getting her back but if taken overboard, it can backfire and make her not want you back at all. A woman does want a man that other women want, but not a man who seems sleazy or loose around the ladies.

2 - Remember what makes little girls feel special works with adult woman also. Girls as well as women want to be treated like a "princess" and not like the "queen". Being nice to her, showing respect and remembering those special dates go a long way to get her to look back at your relationship again. Send her a card for her birthday or for a special occasion that happened between the two of you, to let her know that you still remember her. Do it in a positive and casual way, but do not go overboard with what you write in the card. Just a respectful "today is your special day;" I still care and I am still here.

1 - It is fine to text her, but not too much. An occasional text, e-mail or letter is acceptable if not over done. Reach out to her to let her know that you want to be her friend and you still care for her. If she starts to feel comfortable with you again, she may realize how important you and your relationship were to her. She may suddenly realize that she has made a mistake and wants you two to be back together. Do not push the issued or seem too anxious as this may drive your ex girlfriend farther away.

Getting your ex girlfriend back is a process and not an exact science. It will take time, patience and sometimes gritting your teeth and keeping your mouth shut. If you really do still love your ex girlfriend and want her back, it WILL be worth it. Keeping some distant contact and communication lines open can go a long way toward your success in getting her back. There are more steps to insure your rekindled love affair with your ex girlfriend and to make sure to get her back.