4 Reasons To Skip The Is He The Right Boyfriend Quiz

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Question:

I've seen a lot of "Is he the right boyfriend" quizzes online and I'm kind of tempted to take one. Will this impact my relationship with him at all?

Answer:

There are many quizzes online that claim they can help you understand your relationship. The main goal of these quizzes is to evaluate both your boyfriend and your current relationship with him in the hopes of telling you whether or not he's the right man for you. But the truth is that these quizzes are wildly inaccurate, and should never be relied on.

I'm going to outline 4 reasons why you should skip the 'Is he the right boyfriend' quiz.

The Quiz Is Not Personal

The biggest problem with the majority of these quizzes about your boyfriend is that they aren't personal. And they don't factor in your boyfriend's individual personality. The quizzes are simply generic. So don't base your thoughts or your relationship on a quiz that is so generic. These types of generic quizzes often miss the most important factors in your relationship that can't be measured and won't give you a true indication of the worth of your boyfriend.

The Quiz May Miss the Important Factors

Online relationship quizzes rarely if ever bring together all aspects of your relationship. These quizzes miss the intangible aspects of your relationship that make him a good boyfriend to you. The problem here is that if you rely on a quiz that doesn't factor in both the tangible and intangible benefits to your boyfriend, you risk trusting a source that is one dimensional and one that doesn't have all the facts or the answers.

They Force You To Ignore Your True Feelings

The truth is whenever you take an online relationship quiz you're really looking for reassurance. If the quiz tells you what you want to hear, you'll be able to make an easy decision when it comes to your boyfriend. However, if the quiz tells you something that you don't want to hear or that causes you to question your relationship then you run the risk of creating multiple issues that were never really there to begin with. Many people have made the mistake of ignoring their feelings simply because of what the quizzes tell them. So don't rely on a quiz that contradicts your true feelings for your boyfriend. More often than not, the feelings you have are right and you should trust them.

The Writer May Not be an Expert

Many relationship quizzes claim to be written by relationship experts. Some say that they are psychologists, while others say that they are relationship advisors and counselors.

Never trust these quizzes. Because you can never really tell the difference between a fake and a professional. You risk putting a lot of stock in their answers and suggestions because you believe that they are in a position of knowledge and expertise. However when it comes to your boyfriend, you do not want to base your relationship decisions on a quiz that many to be written by an expert.


About the Author:
'Is he the right boyfriend' quizzes are found on websites that claim to help you with your relationship however most of these sites fail to offer any personalization to you and your situation which means they won't really help you understand your relationship at all. Instead, talk to a family member or a friend if you have any questions about your relationship with your boyfriend. They are the ones who will be able to help you determine if he is the right boyfriend for you.

There is however a time when taking an online relationship quiz can actually h



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