4 Critical Elements In Manifesting With The Law Of Attraction - Element One

Let me begin by stating two things, one of them is quoting T Harv Eker of course.

1.) Don't believe a word I say. Because I am only coming from my own experience, and what I'm writing to share my experience with the Law of Attraction. I'd reckon that you would relate to a certain extent what I'm talking about, and hopefully that will be enough to set you on your way to attract and manifest any result you want into your life.

2.) The series of articles is about what I believe to be the critical elements, NOT steps. Elements in short, are what must exist in the process, steps is more on a sequential thing. Step 1 followed by Step 2 etc.

Okay, so let's begin.

What Are the 4 Critical Elements?

Upon examining my personal results on manifesting with the Law of Attraction, and re-tracing the steps, I believe that these are the four critical elements required for you to attract your desired results.

1.) Definiteness

2.) Vividness of Visualization

3.) Detachment

4.) ACTION

The first critical element is.... DEFINITENESS.

That means, being as definite as possible. For this series of articles, I would like to, if you may, use a case study to elaborate my points.

The case study is called 'Attracting Your Dream Relationships Using the Law of Attraction' (using the four critical elements of manifestation).

So let's go back on point shall we?

A master once said, what's worse than going in the wrong direction, is going in the wrong direction, ENTHUSIASTICALLY!

The first critical thing to attracting that desired relationship or life partner or the love of your life, is to DEFINE two things:

(A) What you want

AND,

yes you've guessed it,

(B) What you DON'T WANT in a relationship or your life partner!

Things I Want In A Relationship (A)

Things I DON'T Want In A Relationship (B)

What I'm about to suggest, might be hard for some, but I'd like you to be gentle with yourself, and not be overly critical or harsh on yourself. This momentary pain is crucial for your progress, for your healing and most importantly, your happiness.

My friend, let's have a hard and deep look into your previous relationships; both bad and good. I'd recommend that you take a sheet of paper, and split it in two columns.

Column A would have what was great in the relationships. This is very important; it doesn't have to be specific by previous partners. All that matters is you list down what made you feel grateful, great, and awesome and loved in your previous relationships. For example, if you have had a relationship with Mark and John. Both of them seem to know how to make you laugh with funny and heartfelt jokes, you write down in Column A "have my kind sense of humor."

Do you get it so far?

And for Column B, let's say John started letting himself go after you both went steady. He stopped working out, taking care of his health and in turn looked like a slob nine months into the relationship, which lead to him to stop paying attention to your body and feelings, starting to feel insecure about himself etc. You can put down "taken me for granted" or "stop putting effort into the relationship after a while" (which in short means the lack of commitment).

In short, Column A lists down what made you feel great, Column B lists down what made the once rosy relationship went south.

And here's the clincher for the first element (DEFINITENESS).

Are you ready?

All the things you listed down in Column B, I want you to FLIP them!

Yup, flip them as in find the complete opposite of what went wrong, what made the relationship turn sour, and insert the new input in Column A.

For example, if you flip "stop putting effort into the relationship after a while", it becomes "never stopped paying attention to his health" and/or "always appreciative of my body" and so forth. Only you know what the opposite of the negatives are. So go ahead and take some time to flip the negatives, as definite positives.

2-Minute Summary

In short, be as definite as possible on the characteristics of the result that you'd like to attract with the Law Attraction. Go further to define as clear as possible on what you don't want as well. And then, flip all the negatives. That's the first element of effective manifestation with the Law of Attraction.

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