3 Factors You Didnt Realize About Reading Body Language

3 Factors You Didnt Realize About Reading Body Language

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People communicate a lot more using body language than they are possibly conscious of. How much more? I dont know. Im not really a scientist. Regardless, body language is a vital tool to utilize during the interview process. Posture, tone and also poise can help seal the deal for you far more than mere words. Just put yourself in the shoes of the interviewer. Will you be apt to hire a person who says all the proper things however never makes eye contact with you, mumbles and continually is playing with his or her hair? Possibly, depending on other job hopefuls. Even so, this person definitely hasnt done themselves any favors by acting like a distracted cheese ball. Here are three tidbits to know when analyzing body language.

1. Put Together the Entire Message- Body language is way more than just one single gesture. The body has an insane number of combinations in regards to posture, tone and activity. Going off just one single aspect of body language doesnt work. Just like listening to someone speak a sentence, follow a persons ongoing gestures. Shifting around in a chair once isnt necessarily a job interview faux pas. Perhaps youre simply getting relaxed. But constantly squirming around is usually a sure manifestation of nervousness, discomfort or hemorrhoids. Compound that with maybe sweating or rapid eye movements and you got yourself a signal saying youre possibly terrified or even lying.

2. Honesty Shows- Exactly what youre saying and what youre doing with your entire body can often send out mixed signals. Has your girlfriend or boyfriend ever claimed theyre fine and then stomp away and slam a door behind them? Obviously theres something larger going on. Your body language can simply betray your true feelings. This will occur in an interview just as much as in social situations. How many times have you feigned interest in a conversation by nodding your head and agreeing? You might be keeping up with a persons dull line of questioning verbally but if youre visibly nodding off it shows. Control your body language.

3. Context Matters- Body language, and virtually most types of communication, depend upon context. Is someone giving you signs that they need to leave and are visibly ignoring just what youre saying? Dont be offended. Shes not wearing a coat and it happens to be negative 2 degree right now. Search for environmental clues to describe body language. Im sure she likes you. Just dont hold her hostage in the middle of snowstorm.

Being a good reader of body language is actually difficult. Contemporary humans tend to be more mentally focused on words than gestures. However, our body is still attuned to sending messages through via physical means. This means that lots of information will go whizzing by your head with you none the wiser. Have a keener eye for body gestures, focus on how one says something rather than what theyre saying.


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