What Men Want In A Relationship -- Tips That Every Woman Needs To Know

What Men Want In A Relationship -- Tips That Every Woman Needs To Know

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Relationships can be fragile. Relationships can be easily broken due to the fact that either one or both people involved could not talk to the other to patch things up. You may know what you want, but to communicate successfully, you need to know what he wants. If you want to have a relationship that is long lasting, you need to figure out what your man wants, and since men differ from women, you need an answer to the question, "What do men want in a relationship?" and more broadly, "What defines intimacy for men?"

To give you some ideas for understanding what your man wants, we will look at some things men typically look for in a relationship. What men want in women is not the same as what they want in a relationship. From many women, men may only want a deeply meaningful, overnight relationship.

What do men most want in a relationship? Men want a partner they are compatible with. As the saying goes "It takes two to tango," and they'd better know the same steps. The majority of men want to have partners who are compatible with them in all aspects. Incompatibilities lead to conflict.

Men hate to be controlled in any situation, and they dislike to be hurried into any kind of relationship. They commit themselves willingly when they are ready.

Men need to be able to talk to a woman. Men can be fed up and get bored with a woman who is just beautiful, but does not possess the brainpower to have interesting discussions. A single guy can be turned on by a woman who has brains as well as a beautiful body.

Above that, men need women of substance. The question is, "Do you add to his life, or do you subtract from it?"

Men want a woman who is a credit to them. When her beauty fades, men still want other men to envy them for their mate. Self sufficiency, confidence, and security in a woman indicate that she is the kind of woman others will envy him for. Such attributes will make your man feel that your relationship has more chances of surviving.

Men don't want a relationship with an emotional nut job. Without a foundation of emotional strength and courage, no relationship will grow strong. Men want their partner to be able to be responsible for her own emotions. What men want in a relationship is for you to be mature enough to handle your emotions in a adult way.

Men want their partner in a relationship to be trustworthy. In a marriage, a man must trust his wife with his fortune and with decisions on his medical treatment. Your husband must trust his life to you.

You must know that men want you to be faithful in a relationship. Evolution has made it harder for a man to be faithful than for you. Infidelity doesn't much increase the prevalence of a female's genes in the gene pool, but it can significantly increase the prevalence of a male's; thus infidelity is selected for in males. Evolution also selects for men being committed to raising a family. But while men know that they can remain committed even when they are sometimes unfaithful, they know that unfaithful women are most likely changing their commitment. Like women, every man wants his relationship to be true and honest. You will be considered a total catch if you are faithful and trustworthy. Men admire a woman who stays committed and never attempts to cheat.

Lastly, what men crave in a relationship is intimacy. This is the secret of any loving and long relationship. You will be considered highly attractive if you are ready and open to share your most intimate emotions, feelings and desires with your partner AND you are also sensitive to the fact that men have been trained NOT to open up and be vulnerable. Emotional intimacy is hard for men. The only form of intimacy that many men experience is physical intimacy. You may need emotional intimacy before you appreciate physical intimacy, but for your man, it is likely to be the reverse. He needs physical closeness before he can trust enough to open up emotionally. Valuable moments in any relationship are made possible by intimacy, and the intimacy needs to be both physical and emotional to satisfy you both.

About the Author:
For more answers to "What do men want in marriage?" and "What do men want in women?" visit TipsWhatMenWant.com.
Thomas Christopher is a Colorado public speaker.



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