Don't Ask How To Be The Girl Every Guy Wants: Authenticity Is More Attractive

What women nowadays fail to recognize is that men know what they want, and a girl who loves drama is not exactly included on their list. The best way in attracting true love is to get a good look at your life and settle your own issues. Whether you are in between relationships or not dating at all, the best thing to do is to be yourself. Don't ask how to be the girl every guy wants. Don't spend your time obsessing on how to get a guy to want you or asking "What do men want in a woman?" Those questions will lead you to become manipulative, a thoroughly unattractive trait. You need to be the girl that the right guy wants, and for that you need to embrace some life philosophies to enhance not just your love life but yourself.

1. Do the things you love, starting now.

Are you declining your friends invitations for everything from trips down to even bar-hopping, waiting to find the man of your dreams first? Are you pining away in a tower waiting for a knight in shining armor to come and rescue you? Bad move. Knights can find plenty of damsels who are out enjoying themselves, and frankly, they would rather spend time with them. At least, the out-and-about damsels have shown they know how to have fun.

2. Focus on your fun, dress for yourself.

Appearance is important, but it is too easy to make it your sole focus. Are you dressing for guys, with revealing tops and skirts? Are you always checking your reflection in a mirror? Understand this: you are not presenting a guy a still photograph of yourself. He sees you in motion. He will see if you are uncomfortable, anxious, and self-conscious, and security, confidence and comfort in being yourself is a lot more attractive. The important thing is not who he would like to see in a photo, but who he would like to be with. Be comfortable and enjoying yourself, and he will want to share that comfort and enjoyment. 3. Singleness serves as relationship training. Do you think having a boyfriend will make your life perfect? Having this mindset won't make you feel at peace. Instead, work out WHAT makes you happy instead of WHO. Know how to use the present to explore your self. Find out what satisfies you, what excites you, what makes you laugh and what makes you cry. Only you can create a life for yourself. Someone else can only create their life for you. Explore the world or explore your mind. Explore widely, or go deep. You must bring yourself to a relationship. How can you, until you have something to bring?

4. Give up that "The One" belief

Are you armed with a list of requirements, looking for Mr. Right? Remember, job interviews are no fun, for neither the interviewer nor the interviewee. Also remember, in hiring, that unless you start with the candidate you secretly intend to hire and write the job requirements for him, nobody matches them perfectly. You'll have more fun, and more success, if you are open to serendipity. Relax and have fun.

5. Make it your own

Don't ask how to be the girl every guy wants. "Be yourself." This old saying still hold true until today. Who cares if you snort while laughing or say something wrong? It is better to be bubbly and be a slightly goofy version rather than the blank-faced not-you with nothing to give in a conversation.

Making a guy fall in love doesn't take an expert. Worrying about how to be the girl every guy wants will only distract you. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know how to be the girl the right guys want. Try the tips listed above and you'll surely capture his heart.

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There are also discussions of men's " fear of commitment" phobia.

Thomas Christopher is a Colorado public speaker.

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